Let’s talk about SEX!

But first, let’s talk about the sexes. It should go without saying that men and women are inherently different. However, it seems like you ladies are trying your darnedest to bridge the gap. It appears that you all no longer want, what women over 45 would call, a REAL man. Like back in the days when men were manly. There are several articles and studies out there regarding the recent feminization of men. This is something you women have implemented, but you cry foul when the feminized man you’re dating turns out to a “downlow”.

ELLE, the popular women’s magazine, has recently featured 3 articles glorifying the new feminized man. One of their articles discussed how great men look in women’s hair styles. They coined it, the “man bun”, in which guys with long flowing locks put their hair in a fancied updo. Another article they ran suggests their approval of the new trend of men wearing nail polish. I’m gay and I don’t even approve of men getting clear nail polish during a manicure. But this; this is ridiculous! Just yesterday ELLE featured an article about how men should sit with their legs totally together; like women sit when they wear short skirts. Men aren’t designed to sit like women because we have something between our legs. Do you women want to get rid of ‘IT’ too? Are these trends made by closeted lesbians in an effort to make men appear like females, so that they can have an easier time faking it with a male? Because this is exactly what you straight women are doing; paving a way for closeted gay men to be as feminine as he really is while you stand guard as his beard.

Ladies, can you really cry victim if you learn that your man is secretly gay when he looked and acted like a woman before you started dating him? If he has hair that is longer and more fabulous than yours; don’t date him, even if he is a football player. If he paints his nails pretty floral colors, black or just uses clear nail polish; run. Jared Leto is a famous actor whom ELLE referenced in 2 of their previously mentioned articles. Well earlier this week, transgender actress Alexis Arquette was trending again regarding claims she made in August about her having had sex with Jared. She alleged that the sex occurred during a time when she presented herself as a man. Alexis further claimed that a close transgender friend of hers also had sex with him and said that Jared was the bottom. Leto never issued a statement nor has he filed a lawsuit against the transsexual for these telling accusations. True or not, it is safe to say that you should only date men that look and carry themselves like MEN.

Finally, let’s have that sex talk. I’m sure most of you don’t know who Alex Reid is. He has done several UFC matches here in America and is a prized MMA fighter over in the UK where he lives. Just this week, his ex-wife revealed that she frequently used a strap on to perform anal sex on HIM! In fact, she went further to say “That’s why I divorced him. Because I didn’t want to be the man.” This is not uncommon. Plenty of you out there are doing this or have a girlfriend that’s doing it. Although the anus is an erogenous zone for everyone, you should not be pleasuring it on your man and here’s why. First, he has to assume the sexual position of a woman in order for you to access it. Second, it could be like opening Pandora’s box: a tongue today, a finger tomorrow, a butt plug next week and a strap on next month. Third, how can you be sure he’s not going to want to graduate to the REAL THING? Ladies, you can’t cry and complain that gay men lie and deceive you when you in fact ENABLE them. Why would they come out if they have you as a cover and you’re silly enough to give them gay sex?